Marshall Rosenberg on Non-violent communication

From Marshall Rosenberg’s book “Non-Violent Communication”

“Empathy is a respectful understanding of what others are experiencing.  Instead of offering empathy, we often have a strong urge to give advice or reassurance and to explain our own position or feeling.  Empathy, however, calls upon us to empty our mind and listen to others with our whole being.

In nonviolent communication, no matter what words others may use to express themselves, we simply listen for their observations, feelings, needs, and requests.  Then we may wish to reflect back, paraphrasing what we have understood.  We stay with empathy, allowing others the opportunity to fully express themselves before we turn our attention to solutions or requests for relief.”

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